Does anyone know a song that is sung by a girl in a soft voice, the melody is very repetitive and simple, the lyrics are very hard to understand, because she's almost mumbling it, and then at the chorus it goes something like 'it's over (or it's all love, or it's our love, or some other similar thing)' and repeats that line like 6 times at least. Especially Pinkie! Dont tell her i said that! She will bake me into a cupcake! That monster! Twilight is the egghead, RD is just a boaster all around, Rarity is miss perfect, AJ UGH! Me: Excuse me! That is just a meany fanfic about pinkie! And twilight can love books, rainbow dash is just very confident, Rarity is very nice and NOT perfect!
Source: ShutterstockLove is a force of nature. However much we may want to, we can not command, demand, or take away love, any more than we can command the moon and the stars and the wind and the rain to come and go according to our whims. We may have some limited ability to change the weather, but we do so at the risk of upsetting an ecological balance we don't fully understand. Similarly, we can stage a seduction or mount a courtship, but the result is more likely to be infatuation, or two illusions dancing together, than love. One can buy loyalty, companionship, and perhaps even compassion, but love itself cannot be bought. An can be bought, but love cannot.
It comes, or not, by grace, of its own will and in its own timing, subject to no human's planning.Love cannot be turned on as a reward. It cannot be turned off as a. Only something else pretending to be love can be used as a lure, as a hook, for bait and switch, imitated, insinuated, but the real deal can never be delivered if it doesn't spring freely from the heart.
This doesn't mean that love allows destructive and abusive behaviors to go unchecked. Love speaks out for justice and protests when harm is being done. Love points out the consequences of hurting oneself or others. Love allows room for, or pain to be expressed and released.
But love does not threaten to withhold itself if it doesn't get what it wants. Love does not say, directly or indirectly, 'If you are a bad boy, Mommy won't love you any more.' Love does not say, 'Daddy's little girl doesn't do that.' Love does not say, 'If you want to be loved, you must be nice,' or 'Do what I want,' or 'Never love anyone else,' or 'Promise you'll never leave me.'
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One, at the early stage of a relationship, you just don't know. Heck, on my wedding day I didn't know for sure if I loved the man I was about to marry. He confided in me later that, on his mind that day was, should I be doing this again?
(I'm his second -and last- wife). It's true of all wedding days, whether the couple knows it or not. I'll tell you why.Love grows.
And, it needs time to grow, that just makes sense. Maybe love can grow in other ways, like, how many fights can you have and still stay together to enjoy the good times when they come? Love grows through actions, reciprocation, memories, pain, sorrow, empathy, compassion.You will know if the love is authentic if you find yourself performing actions for him out of love, out of caring for him, out of because you want to please him. Those are actions of love. You'll know when what you did for him, shine his shoes, he reciprocated, iron your dress. You'll know when he does something for you that will please you, and you want to return the favor.
That's reciprocal love. You will know when you have fond memories to look back on, to laugh over. This is where time gets involved. The more time, the more memories. Good or bad doesn't matter, that just comes with the territory. You'll know its love when he hurts your feelings, but you don't blow up about it, knowing much of it, the words, is his anger and need to vent. This is called being the whipping post.
You are his, and he is yours. You will both use it.
It's not a bad thing when its a two way street; it is bad if its only one way-that is abuse.I love my husband more the longer we are together. I have learned what love is over the years, by experiencing it. The experience happens when you are solid in your commitment to one another. On my wedding day I wasn't sure if I love him; but I was sure of something else: I was committing myself to him. I took the wedding vows seriously and literally.
So, if I never loved him in the future, I would still stay with him. You do realize that you can't experience the depths of love until you got commitment down. Because love gets sweeter as it gets older. Love is not about working up or building up to loving someone, love is not a constant struggle and is something as fragile as you explained it. Love is effortless and is hard and sturdy and simply cannot be forced, what you are attempting is forced love which is something exceptionally hard to do. Unlike life love is not meant to be a constant struggle, sure you may have the arguments and may disagree at times and others might try to make your relationship difficult for you because they're jealous, as long as there is love, there will be hate that is undeniable. But in the end no matter what struggles you may face the fact that you love the person should be unquestionable otherwise don't marry them, if you were questioning whether it was a good idea to marry that guy then it was obviously a bad idea and you may have missed out on finding true love, which if that is the case I am extremely sorry for you.
The fact of the matter is, if you are not able to go against any morals you may believe in or unable to kill for the person you 'love' then you don't love them it's as simple as that. If you don't make the person you love your main priority above even your own friends and family then you don't love them, true love is undoubtable, unquestionable, unnegotiable, effortless and dangerous. If something were to make your beloved happy then you would do it without question, even if it betrayed everything you ever believed in. It is impossible to deck authentic love in someone else unless you have within yourself the characteristics of true love.Now, how do you know if you are blessed with those characteristics?I believe the article in Psychology Today is self-explainable.You can, however, test yourself to determine if you posses the characteristics of true love. Read 1st Corinthians chapter 13, verses 4 through 8 in the Christian Bible. Then read those same verses again and put your name in place of the word 'love', ONLY if the characteristic genuinely applies to you.
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Love is not a 'force of nature.' It is a Farce of nature.It is just hormones combined with unmet psychological needs.I think its bad when people try to make it out as something mystical, that just leaves people who are already unloved feeling worse.The people who get all gooey about love are those who have been fortunate enough to find it at least sometime in their lives. Attractive Women, especially like romance, because they automatically attract it without any effort.For those of us that will live and die unloved - we don't want to hear about your fairy tail. I'm sorry to read that you feel unloved. 'Hormones' and 'unmet needs' are not true love.
What you are referring to here is how our society perceives love: mad passion and 'happily ever afters'. I don't agree word for word with what the article says, but I think the love this article is referring to is not necessarily romantic love.
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True love can only be found when we realize that we don't need anyone to love us to feel worthy and to justify our existence. It's not easy to achieve, but it begins with taking the time to accept our true selves.
If I may offer some unsolicited advice: I hope you take the time to really get to know yourself. Pay attention to what makes you feel at peace and do more of it.
What you are experiencing there is a manifestation of love. Also, notice what makes you feel anxious or bad about yourself and avoid it as much as you can. There's no need to understand why these things make you feel the way they do, just accept that it's ok to feel that way, regardless of what anyone else thinks about what you should and should not be doing. Also, be careful of how you see others. As soon as you catch yourself judging someone else, put the thought from your mind.
I find that often our criticism of other people is really a reflection of how we see ourselves, and the more we judge others the harder it is to see our own worth. Listen to your intuition. There's only one you and only you know what is good for you. I hope you find the love you are looking for. Anonymous wrote:I'm sorry to read that you feel unloved.
'Hormones' and 'unmet needs' are not true love. What you are referring to here is how our society perceives love: mad passion and 'happily ever afters'. I don't agree word for word with what the article says, but I think the love this article is referring to is not necessarily romantic love. True love can only be found when we realize that we don't need anyone to love us to feel worthy and to justify our existence. It's not easy to achieve, but it begins with taking the time to accept our true selves. If I may offer some unsolicited advice: I hope you take the time to really get to know yourself. Pay attention to what makes you feel at peace and do more of it.
What you are experiencing there is a manifestation of love. Also, notice what makes you feel anxious or bad about yourself and avoid it as much as you can. There's no need to understand why these things make you feel the way they do, just accept that it's ok to feel that way, regardless of what anyone else thinks about what you should and should not be doing. Also, be careful of how you see others. As soon as you catch yourself judging someone else, put the thought from your mind. I find that often our criticism of other people is really a reflection of how we see ourselves, and the more we judge others the harder it is to see our own worth.
Listen to your intuition. There's only one you and only you know what is good for you. I hope you find the love you are looking for. I agree with you that many of us will live and die unloved. Many of us were never loved as children and as adults love still stays out of reach. As adults we fall in love with people who cannot love us, just as our caretakers could not love us.
It is very sad but, it is also a fact of life. Not everyone gets to be lucky enough to have love in their lives.
I wish society would understand and acknowledges this more instead of denying it. Just know that you are not alone, there are other people living with this problem. I feel love goes beyond all forms of physical attraction and desire. I came across the following quotes on the internet that I feel are closer to defining what authentic true love is:'-Love that much abused word is not what most believe it to be.
It has components like cruelty, loneliness,injustice n much else.-Most humans r far too foolish n un evolved to ever know the vv very painful reality that is love. It takes aeons of time even to understand.- U who say I want to b a lover in true sense. Look at your motive. Its not like achieving worldly goals. If u were sincere u wouldn’t ask.- Rather then taint a sacred word like love, its better to say 'I like u'. Love in its truest sense requires aeons of time to experience. Few do'.- See more at: http://www.lahotar.com//?s=true+love#sthash.McNsTBv5.dpuf.
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But you can't make love seem like a horrible thing to be avoided. Like it said 'Love has no borders or territories' As does the truth to love has no territory or boundary.Unless you have never ever in your whole god damn life haven't felt like crap because of the truth, you have no right to say this. And if you haven't felt like crap yet, then a lot of people have been lying to you. Shut up unless you have a way to tell them the truth without making them feel like crap. Anonymous,I understand what you are saying. I have felt this way since I was 12 years old.
I realized at that age my parents did not truly love me. I learned that the people that are supposed to 'love and care' for you more than anyone else on this earth couldn't love me and my younger sisters, then who was going to. It made me incredibly sad and set me up for a lifetime of disappointment. Then you see these movies, and songs, and blogs like this, that talk about how special love is. That it is natural. I struggle because I love deeper and stronger than I could ever put into words.
I have two children and the love I have for them can never be verbally expressed. I loved and still love their father, but after six years of holding on to the hope that one day he would love me, I have finally come to grips that he doesn't and is not capable of it.
It has just reaffirmed my belief that love in a romantic sense does not exist. I think the only reason I love as deep as I do is because of what my parents did to me as a child. Love exists, but it is so rare that it can be insensitive to promote it so much when children who grow up in homes where they are indeed unloved grow up with an extremely damaged self esteem, and think 'why not me' 'why am I unlovable' etc. I cry myself to sleep almost every night because I'm surrounded by a world that advertises this concept of love and I'm longing for someone or something to make me feel safe, and secure and to love me back. It's hard to explain, much like the definition of love. But I do understand what you are saying.
I feel the same way. For many it is hard for them to understand what it is like to know you were unloved in the most lovable stage of your life, as a child. It is damaging, to say the least.
Okay, so with Haddaway off to the side, I'd like to say that you, Doctor, have made some very good points. Now that I think of it, I guess love is a force of nature, but possibly not for the same reason. I believe love on a human and earthly scale is just whatever jiggles around up there in our noggins.
If one was born without the right parts, love would be absent, and if all animals, in particular mammals, didn't have the right parts, that force would exist. Also, think back to those horrible documentaries of the formation of life. It wasn't love that was keeping the organisms alive. Because I am far from an expert, I can't say when animals could love (or when animals existed), but before that point.But what about the different types of love? I love my food. I love my family. I love my lover (go figure).
I love my dog. I love the sports team here. I love my hobby.
And lets say I love my fictional Aunt Betsy.so I love her by default (because of family), but I don't.err.like her. Who hasn't had that family member who you love, but being in the same room for more than a few minutes has the potential for hair ripping, black eyes, and numerous deposits in the swear jar? In this scenario, love has no force but to make sure both her and I brag about excellence in our Christmas cards. And it's true that love wasn't earned because we are family. It was just there.Comments anyone?. I think what you mean about 'human and earthly' is that love is an instinct, not so much a feeling or something you're born with/without.
Animals protect their young instinctively that appears, to us, as love. That's fine because protection is an act of love and an instinctive act. Why do we love our children, no questions asked?
In this sense, it can be described as a force of nature because it just happens automatically. You immediately protect, defend, care for your child. That would mean we all unequivocally are born with the capacity to love, even if its just our children.Love can't be earned. That's interesting. It is because the person who is feeling the love for someone else is a one way street, you could say. Why someone loves a person has to do with that someone, not the person.
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When our teenagers throw a fit and scream how much they hate us, w'e don't take it personal. We love them and tell ourselves, this is a phase, this is a phase.,However, in a family there can be love withheld. Not when you're young, but when you start becoming a little person. There are parents (if you want to call them that) who withhold their love from a particular child, not necessarily all, because of some whatever reason. Her hair is curly. She has blue eyes and I don't.
These people don't know what unconditional love is. They have all these conditions, they stereotype, they're disingenuous and shallow-hearted. I was a victim of that.The different types of love? That's just semantics, using the word 'love' in place of what could be instead 'I most enjoy reading'. So, those aren't loves. Would you not say that love has an element of caring for the well being of others.
If you love your 'Aunt Betsy' in that you care for the well being of her, even if you would rather not hang out with her, then could that not be said to be some form love? Yet, you do not know your Aunt Betsy's neighbor and therefore probably do not care about her well being as much as you do your Aunt Betsy.
What is common with all forms of love? You love your food, your family, your lover, etc. But not your neighbor's food, your neighbor's family or your neighbor's lover. Your neighbor's loves do not move your emotionally but yours does, so it is the emotional quality that makes all the forms of love the same. Because trying to define the difference of loving a spouse, versus an aunt, versus ice cream does not make sense, I know that I don't love anyone else like the way I love my husband.
He has the best of my love. Everything else? Well, I think we toss the word love around too much, but for lack of other words available I guess we don't have a choice. Caring has everything to do with loving; both in caring about someone and actually caring for someone. No, you don't love things like you do people. Things are desired, wanted, craved, obsessed over, played, etc. Love is action that has to be received.
Inanimate things can't receive or know. But, anything animate can be given love, affection, caring: people, animals. What is common in love-it would be nice if it was given unconditionally; but, short of that, it is the act of giving, I think. It doesn't have to be received.
To me, that sounds like obligation - mostly due to the fact he/she happened to be related to someone and we're conditioned/socialized to 'take care of our own' - perhaps an extension of the selfish gene theory. Love is schizophrenic - and its meaning differs according to the context.
The feeling it inspires could range from obsessiveness and passion to calm joy and warmth - depending on the type of love and the object of affection. The more volatile emotions are often, I think, not 'true love' in that it is often of the romantic nature in which jealousy and possessiveness are part and parcel. Thus, it usually isn't unconditional - but in some cases it may be. More interesting is how we differently respond to and accept love - and how we recognize it.
When one looks at a frog, one can usually immediately see that this creature is a frog. Let us take scalpel, forceps, tweezers, other implements and dissect this frog to see what it is made of. First, of course, we should kill the frog: it would not do to vivisect this living, breathing, swimming, singing, mating, beautiful little animal. Now, we can begin the dissection, to discover the secrets of its frog-ness.
There, we have exposed the stomach, the intestines, the heart that was beating a short while ago. We follow the circulatory system, we expose the skeleton and the nerves - Ah! There is the brain that directed the frog to do frog things.
We finish our dissection, having examined all the inner workings of the frog.But at the end of it all, looking down at the scattered, exposed, disassembled frog parts, where is the frog? It seems that the frog was greater than the sum of its parts. And so it is with love. So, in 1966 my mom was in nursing school. She was to dissect a frog, but they were using just enough ether to anesthetize the frogs so that they could SEE the hearts beating, etc.
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Then, after the frogs were examined, the teacher instructed everyone to administer more ether to finish their frog off, and they trashed the bodies. Except for my mom.
Who was in nursing school to HEAL. She stitched 'Hoppy' up with red embroidery floss, and kept him as a pet until spring, when she released him, healthy as ever.We can dissect love. We can look at its parts.
The whole is greater than the sum, for sure. 'We' is a much more magical unit than either 'He' or 'I' alone. But don't forget your red embroidery floss. It takes some effort to keep it together, and keep it alive.